Finally found a patch to fix SD and eMMC. Needs more testing, but at a first glance everything works fine.
https://wiki.postmarketos.org/wiki/Xunlong_Orange_Pi_3_(xunlong-orangepi3)
https://gitlab.alpinelinux.org/alpine/aports/-/merge_requests/22505
https://gitlab.alpinelinux.org/alpine/aports/-/merge_requests/22504